Magick, Twin Flames, and Why You Probably Aren’t Going to Win the Lottery with Your Wand

One thing for sure.  If you want a Harry Potter magickal experience you’re going to need a heck of a lot of power.  At least you will in this Universe.  We appear to live in a Universe governed by probabilities. The magick that is reality also appears to be rather non-linear.  As in, how you think things should happen in your life is almost certainly wrong.

Can you change your pencil into a train set with the wave of a magick wand?  Maybe, the odds though are rather slim.  In a probabilistic Universe our magickal workings are all about influencing the odds of some event happening. You need a pretty big shift in odds if you are starting at 1 in 1,000,000,000,000,000,000.

Because shifting odds with magick takes energy you need a bunch of energy the longer the odds. Which is why in my practice I am taking the advice Gordon White over at Rune Soup and breaking my big goals down into small steps.  Each little goal is much easier to have influence than one massive goal.  Speaking of Gordon White, while you are listening to his podcast check out his book Chaos Protocols.  Great book on navigating life in our times with magick.

Another way to work with probabilities is to let go of control.  The odds of a successful magickal working may be much higher than you realize.  Assuming you do not insist on results showing up the way you think they should.

As an example, this is how I met my wife. For a number of years I had been searching for a type of connection I knew was out there somewhere. This really kicked in after a spontaneous energy initiation in 2001. One of those blow your circuits things that happened when I was alone in nature.

After the divorce from my first wife I started experiencing relationships which kept pointing in this energetic direction.  They just were not working out.  My intuition was at times screaming at me to not be involved with the woman in my life. Very confusing times. The odds seemed pretty low that I would ever meet my her.

One day I was standing in the shower and I did a small ritual. One of the keys to this ritual was I consciously dropped my criteria for a partner.  I asked for my partner, full stop.

She contacted me 2 and 1/2 days later.  A very significant time period by the way. One I have seen repeated in other work I have done as well as works of some of my colleagues.

As an aside: I had an on-line profile on a dating service which is where she found me.  A day later and it would have been deleted. I was seriously tired of dealing with dating.  I had created the profile as a possible route to find “her.”

After we met, we both experienced at least a few years of chaos due to living with the most intense energetic connection we could have imagined. Those familiar with the idea of soul mates will recognize the term Twin Flame. The heat of the Twin Flame connection is pretty good at incinerating non-productive ego patterns.

We survived though and are thriving.  Our connection on every level is intense. Without the personal growth work we had both done prior and continue to do we likely would have self-destructed.  Life can get pretty confusing when you can sense just about everything about your partner whether they are with you or 100 miles away.

One of the keys to why we were able to get together was in dropping my expectations she be a certain way. After letting go of control and trusting the process the magick, spirits, universe delivered my partner. I am quite sure whoever or whatever is in charge of these things was trying pretty hard to get me to wake up.  There were various obvious signs such as three months before we met I had met her in a dream where she had given me her name.

As you develop your magickal practice I am sure you will notice the same effect. Success is a progression where small successes lead us to larger ones. Eventually we arrive at our goal having followed a path we couldn’t have anticipated. Possibly, we find at the end of our work an even better result than we could have imagined.

Meditation for Twin Flame Telepathic Heart Connections

Not long ago, in the middle of the night, I wanted to feel her closer to me.  Yeah, she was a couple feet away in our bed. Still, sometimes you just can’t get enough snuggling!

There is an energy meditation I like use to invite her to me in situations like this one. When I do she usually rolls over so we can snuggle some more. Being able to call to each other at a heart level in itself feels good let alone the physical closeness we share when she responds.

Why don’t I just roll over myself? I respect her need for sleep. Her health and happiness are a priority for me. Sleep is top priority for maintaining both.

This time something new and wonderful happened. When I made my heart invitation to her that night she placed her hand over my heart to flow energy for a few minutes.

Pure bliss! The warm glow of her energy reassured whatever wanted her closer that everything was fine. Just recalling the moment brings back the peaceful feeling of being cared for so deeply.

The technique for inviting your partner is really simple. Still, it may take some practice.

Warning: Trying this with people you are not in sync with can open you up to all sorts of painful lessons. The flow of energy can be very destabilizing if done at a depth either people are not ready to experience.

  • Focus on your breath. Allow everything else in your mind to drift by without judgement.
  • Relax. Physical tension blocks most communication. Relax as and be aware of the state of tension and lack of tension in your body.
  • Feel your energy flowing using whatever sense is most comfortable. Personally, I am quite visual and kinesthetic and am describing this process from that perspective.
  • Visualize you and your Twin’s heart energy and chakra as one energy system. Be aware of and see the interweaving and oneness of you and your Twin’s heart energy.
  • Intuitively feel yourself create a space for your TF. This space is an intuitive sense and will have the quality of drawing them to you.
  • Hold the space, the feelings, and the intention without expectation.
  • Snuggle up!

The fundamental idea of this meditation is in the invitation. This approach is quite receptive, very yin. I found a yang approach of projecting my energy wasn’t nearly as productive as making an invitation. Energy has been more effective worked with instead of commanded. Everything happens in my heart work space.

I use a similar process when I do energy work. Whatever level I am working with the idea is to make an invitation. Often, something does happen. I am intentionally not imposing my will so the results can be unexpected. Which is okay. Be unattached to results. Hold the space.

Why does this meditation work?

First, with a Twin Flame you already have a natural connection. You are in sync on all levels. Vibrations match for you two. Anything energetic work related is much simpler between you and your TF.

Of course, unresolved issues can get in the way. Anything that causes tension for an individual has the potential of reducing the effectiveness of your intention. Also, mental distractions or diverted attention are very effective at shutting down the awareness of the connection and the energy flowing.

Second as I described above the act of inviting can be very powerful. Creating a vacuum for the other to fill is very effective. A pushing force creates a reactive push against. Push your intent and you risk a push against your intent. Guide energy, attract energy, hold space for energy.

Third, related to the first point, you are of the same soul as your twin. Yes, one is masculine and one is feminine. The most natural partner for either to flow energy and intention with is their original complement. You are one, like two eyes share the same body. One sees from the feminine perspective. The other from the masculine perspective. As one.

You are meant to dance together. As one.


What Happens When You Meet Your Twin Flame

First Date

Towards the end of the evening on our first date we were sitting in a diner. I had my arm around her. She had her head on my chest. The waitress was concerned and asked if I wanted her to call a cab. The intoxication she was witnessing though wasn’t from alcohol.  We are still Twin Flame drunk three and a half years later.

More than a soul mate. More than a karmic partner. Many people think of Twin Flames as the two halves of a soul. Sometimes Twin Flames are romantic partners though this is not required. They can be family members or friends,  same sex or opposite sex, for example.

After meeting my Twin Flame I would refine this idea of being halves of the same soul a bit. She is my perfect soul mirror. From the moment we met she has reflected back to me my deepest aspects.

The short answer to what happens when you meet is there is a knowing. A deep, scary knowing. You may not even want to admit you feel this knowing at first. Feeling safe and finally found home and knowing your world has changed forever.


Nothing in me can remain hidden from her. Mentally and emotionally we always know each others thoughts and states immediately. Often times down to the words being thought.

This level of knowing can be very intense! We’ve shared this connection from the beginning. The accuracy of our perception was pretty good at first and only getting more clear.  On another level though my deepest wounds and darkest shadows have been front and center from our first date.

This intensity also nearly broke us apart.

With natural and nearly complete transparency between us boundaries are very difficult to maintain. When that energy hits a raw nerve or decades old wound watch out. Thankfully, those wounds and raw nerves heal. Communication skills are very helpful.  As is a good therapist!

Spiritual Growth

Meeting each other has been about much more than healing old wounds. Thankfully.  This level of relating really can be intense! The natural energy between us is unbelievable.

We feel like we are on an accelerated growth path. Our natural energy patterns reinforce each other expanding our learning and growth. Whether during our sexual connection, while dancing, or just talking between the two of us we have to be aware of the natural desire to expand with each other energetically.

One way I see us in our natural state is as a helix continuously expanding spiraling around each other at higher and higher frequencies of vibration. Being in the physical world though keeps us grounded and able to function with the rest of the world.  If nothing else our physical need for sleep limits how many hours we can dance, talk, laugh or fight (rarely) with each other.

This grounding has certainly been helpful in my growth. Exploring the contrasting state between grounding and expanding states helps me understand both better. They provide reference points and insights for each other.

So back to the original question. What happens when you meet your Twin Flame?  Exactly what you need for maximum growth.